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Not only that, but she also shares with us the 76 love letters that kept their relationship alive during the four years of their affair. Torn and yellowed, the letters speak for themselves in this upbeat, inspirational story. Violeta had been working for more than a decade for a Wall Street investment firm before her trip.
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She was a modern, career woman, already married and separated for two years. Stressed and overworked, she had gone to Mexico to relax and charge her batteries. I need to know how the professional writer can work with me as I already have a manuscript. Who will be the author of the Book?
Thank you. Do you give advice? My memoir is of an unusual friendship that continued over four decades. He was my Bible professor my freshman year.
This week someone said I needed to put in tension. As near as I can tell, the tension was all in me. To further my dilemma, I am close to approaching Consequently, time, my time, is of the essence for me. Thanks for reading this. Marilyn LaRonde Just in case: H. Congrats to you on writing your story.
I suggest looking at story structure first. The Story Grid is a great way to delve into structure as well as editing. A suggestion not here on the list: Frame your story with a clear beginning, middle, and end. Start with dramatizing the inciting incident of the story, what kicks off the story in a big way, the punch to the gut. Complicate the story progressive problems.
The challenges get bigger and bigger as the story goes on. Give the story a turning point in which the protagonist you have to make a big decision for which there is no turning back. Have the protagonist answer the question in action. And then show the consequences of that decision as the resolution of the story.
I knew I should go that route. Now I have to start over again with much excitement! This will be my first memoir. I would love to have any more tips anyone is willing to share. This is something I want to do and feel I need to do. Hi Marilyn, Apologies if this is way off topic and not of interest, but the subject of your memoir made me think of a book I recently heard the co-authors discuss on a podcast.
Just thought you might be interested. All the best with your own memoir writing!
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Hi there! Would love to hear more about your memoir—do you have a theme yet? How exciting for you! Just finished research for my memoir and I also have all the documents that I need as evidence of truth. Hey April. If you reach out to me via email msh [at] thewritingwhisperer [dot] com we can talk about options. Keep writing! Thanks, Shannon, for these helpful tips. Yay Neil! Good luck—and keep me posted! This story happened when I was in college and met the girl who became my wife.
The time was filled with heavy emotion because I also stood at a crossroads. And so did she. Shannon thank you for this brilliant post and extremely excellent timing! Ohhh Gail! Well done. So happy you found the inspiration to finish up. This is such a great article and with tons of nuggets. Loved it and learned a thing or two as well.
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Thank you Shannon for your sage advice. I appreciate what you say about creating a story with arc and viewing the people in the memoir as characters. Now I realize that I have 3 distinct events that happened in my life to shape me and I look forward to gearing my memoirs towards that goal. Your advice opened my eyes to the possibilities…. Hey Faith. Yes, go for the sliver method. I started working with a memoir writer today and once we narrowed the focus to overarching theme, it was much easier to find the slivers that fit that theme.
Good luck! Thanks for the helpful article. I have been hired to write the story of a 95 year-old woman. Her children approached me to do this, but she is excited about it and looking forward to seeing the book. I guess it will be more of a biography than a memoir, but I want to include stories written as scenes, with details to keep it interesting. Hi Carolyn! Have you read this book? You might want to snag a copy and study the organization!contgravsorepu.gq/4006.php
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Thank you Shannon for the great article! Most of my recent exploration into writing has been in blog format, specifically regarding grief and loss, and I would really like to begin writing about the happier times, and I believe a memoir is the way to begin. Mike—what a great idea for a memoir.
I think that if you think about the theme of the book, and then relate the stories to that theme, you will be just fine. As yourself, what do I want my readers to walk away knowing when they close the book? That is the theme, and then pick the bits and pieces that fit to that theme. Sound good? Hey Wendy, I hear ya. But to get all that off my chest and into something I am now proud of is key!
When I work with my memoir writers, we talk about the emotions, and ways of handling them and dealing with them as we write. I can relate so much wendy. On my good days I dont want to go down into the depths of pain! But on the other hand I know I am compelled to write this story. Your article has certainly ignited some ideas in my mind…. Thank you, Shannon, for this insightful advice. This is working for me.
What a smart friend you have! Shannon — super great post, thanks! Insightful and actionable. Where it all started.. Hi Nicki! Such a very important topic indeed. Be sure you have a content strategy to get the word out. I have seen my book and podcast explode the past two months because I followed a content strategy one I developed and have stuck to it.
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Authors are brands too! Hi shannon , I m kalyani , wanting to write a book for past 30 yrs and never gettinb down to it thinking who will want to read a story of my life , a memoir so to speak. But after reading a few of them above , with ur encouragement , I m beginning to get an idea i think lol. Thank u. Thank you ever so much Shannon, this is a brilliant and very helpful post, I am just an aspiring writer I am no where near writing a memoir yet but I decided to blog.
I have two blogs one where I share my daily life experiences and encounters whose address I have put above. The other is about the breakdown of my marriage whose address is december18blog. I am certainly going to take your advice and make my blogs authentic and help my viewers to get to know me and my life story. Thank you once again. Mabel, blogging is a super way to start a book.
The more REAL you can be, the more people will engage with you and trust you. Hi Shanon, Thank you for giving the link to your talk on you tube which makes very interesting listening. I have considered all you have said about writing a memoir and am currently deciding what my focus is going to be.
Hi Mabel, was reading your blog at work.
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Anna Quindlen, a former New York Times reporter and columnist, opted for fiction over memoir when she began writing books. Quindlen realized that this determination to get every little detail right might hamstring her as a memoirist, a form of writing in which the impressions of memory are part of the package. In her novels, she can arrange the weather as she likes. Your parents are not around to interview. Research can fill in some holes, but you will have to do a lot of inventing, and invention equals novel. By definition, a memoir is a record of events written by a person having intimate knowledge of them and based on personal observation.
My inspiration for this story is a simple spark from real life, not a complete story arc. A story requires an arc—a beginning, middle and end—and a main character whose actions drive the plot. In a good memoir, you try a lot of different things to solve your problem. I wanted to write about the two years my mother spent in hospice care at her home before she died of course I took notes while she napped.
My mother was going to die. I was one of her daughters, reacting to events, but not initiating them the way a good protagonist should. I discovered it would not have made an exciting book. Similarly, a student of mine is struggling to write about how her troubles at the hands of an abusive adopted brother ended when he died in a car crash. To write a more engaging story with a compelling protagonist, a novel would be a better form in which to explore the story that inspired her.
Other people will strongly identify with my story, and I want to be able to share the truth of what happened.
You may want to talk to groups, go on talk shows, and connect with readers who are also mothers, or cancer survivors, or men who graduated from medical school after the age of Another thing to consider is that a novel must create a believable world, one in which a bizarre event can look made up or over-the-top.
Memoir allows you to tell the stories that would seem too convenient, or sentimental, or jarring in a novel.
This did happen. I find the unlimited choices of fiction overwhelming. I know I am. When my mother flops as a showgirl in Las Vegas and my dad meets her on a San Francisco beach. I have a quirky, appealing voice. Voice is probably the most important element in memoir today, when so many subjects have already been written about. Having a strong voice means adopting a more heightened version of yourself: more emotional, more dramatic, more vulnerable, maybe funnier or more ironic.